Try and keep the mood relatively lighthearted. So if all you want to do is moan a little, that is all right, if you wanna talk it out, that’s totally okay too!

The joy of video sex is that, unlike phone sex, you get to actually see your partner in the act so you don’t have that awkwardness of verbally telling them everything you are doing to yourself (although that can be totes sexy too). Be encouraging and understanding and enjoy every moment of the experience together. This should be a bonding experience for both of you and there is no need to rush it at all. Touch yourself gently and allow the anticipation and excitement to build for both of you. Without your usual level of intimacy, this will never be a success.Īs things start to heat up, keep your pace slow and steady. So start things off by just chatting with your partner as you would if the two of you were in the room together. Let’s be serious, it’s not always easy to feel sexy when you’re sitting alone in your room staring at a laptop screen.

Creating a space that feels intimate and sexy will help to get your blood flowing for when you finally get things going with your guy. You’ll feel even sexier later when you get to strip it off for him.īut on some slow jams, dim the lights and burn a candle. It can be hard to feel your sexiest when you don’t have your man there with his appreciatory glances, so pick out some underwear that makes you feel your most sexy and then cover it up. So what are you waiting for? Someone to teach you how to do it? Oh all right…

Thankfully, you live in a technologically friendly era of laptops and video camera and Skype. It’s wonderful, it’s magical, but there is just one thing missing – your guy. It’s the holidays, you’re home with the family, soaking up all the festive cheer and delight.

Skype sex right now